U.S. Military Academy West Point. 14 Dec. 1852.
Sir.
I regret that I am unable to comply with your request for a leave of absence for your son. Although aware of the gratification it would afford him to be present at his sisters marriage, & willing to grant an indulgence which his conduct & standing might merit, yet this is not an occasion, when I could with propriety relax the regulations of the Academy.
The Cadets are placed here for a particular object & if the indulgence in question is granted to one, it must be extended to all. You therefore see it would materially interfere with their course of studies & instruction. Their presence at this time, to prepare for the approaching Jany. examination, is particularly important to them, & it may be of more advantage to your son, to maintain his present high standing in his class, than to enjoy the gaities of the wedding. He will have other opportunities I hope to participate in these hereafter.
I am respecy. your obedt Servt
(Signed) R E Lee Bvt: Col.
Supt: Mily. Acady.
Superintendent's Daily Correspondence United States Military Academy
Superintendent's Letter Book No. 2, p. 305. Addressed “J. C. VanCamp Esq Lancaster, Pensa.”